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Program 1- Our Father’s Sons: Confronting Trauma, Breaking Generational Patterns, and Writing a New Narrative for Men and Masculinity
Keynote | Workshop | Virtual | Retreat
Men across the country are struggling.
There’s this idea that men must behave a certain way: show no emotion, work through the pain, provide by any means necessary. These are the kind of ideals that have been causing harm for generations. In order to break this pattern, young men must learn how to communicate their feelings, express their emotions, seek guidance, and find different paths towards their happiness to change the narrative of masculinity.
This is the mission of Carlos J. Malave’s signature program, Our Father’s Sons.
Carlos is the son of a father that struggled with traditional masculinity and the pressures of society. His father did his best but could never defeat his demeans; tragically in 2019 Carlos’ father took his own life. From that moment, this became Carlos’ WHY. Through his program, Our Father’s Sons, Carlos teaches the audience how to confront trauma, break generational patterns and change the narrative of masculinity through powerful engagements. The mission for Carlos is to help our young men find the power in their vulnerability and use it to their advantage towards a successful life.
Audience members will…
- Investigate current issues involving vulnerability with men
- Identify how their relationships are affected by societal expectations
- Consider healthier ways to express themselves
- Develop healthy strategies to confront conflict
Program 2- Restorative Power: Confronting Conflict, Learning How to Have the Difficult Conversations, and Understanding How to Live Restoratively
Keynote | Workshop | Virtual | Retreat
Restorative Power is the ability to live in a way that allows us to identify the root of all causes in our lives. For years, restorative practices, which is a practice that focuses on improving and repairing relationships, were used as a replacement to discipline within school systems. Today, Carlos vows to change the narrative.
This engaging program allows audience members to develop a mindset and strategies to not only identify conflict, but also reduce it through meaningful, purposeful dialogue. It is intended to help individuals, and groups, learn to better communicate and establish higher levels of dignity and mutual respect.
This is bigger than a job for Carlos. His father was a product of the school-to-prison pipeline. It’s now his goal to dismantle and replace that system with a new one.
Audience members will…
- Identify the difference between conflict and confrontation
- Investigate and address daily habits
- Develop purposeful strategies to confront and reduce conflict
Program 3- Set Your Boundaries:Relationship Building through Direct Communication
Keynote | Workshop | Virtual | Retreat
Do people honor your feelings while acknowledging and accepting your emotions?
Understanding how to set personal limits is essential for building and maintaining healthy relationships. We all want to have good personal boundaries in our friendships and relationships but how do we go about creating and maintaining them?
As a relationship builder, Carlos has developed strategies on how to identify personal limits and execute defining and communicating them to friends and loved ones. The most important ingredient to healthy boundaries is the ability to say “NO”, so let’s put ourselves first.
Audience members will…
- Identify needs and want in relationships.
- Investigate and address boundaries.
- Develop purposeful strategies to put themselves first
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Translating Your Success
by Carlos J. Malave
The Guide to Transforming Your Small Wins Into “Big Wins” Today!!
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What My CLients Are Saying
★★★★★
“Carlos Malave speaks to the heart. He uses his personal struggle to relate and motivate others. His passion for life comes through in his words, body language, and intonation. He connects kids to the larger picture of life and is dynamic and motivating to at-risk youth.”
Noelle Chaddock, PhD
Associate Dean of Academic Affairs for Diversity & Inclusion at Rhodes College
★★★★★
“Carlos has motivational speaking skills where he can speak to teens in a way that they genuinely understand. While Carlos has a great natural aptitude for public speaking, he also works diligently to hone his craft. Carlos is a joy to work with because he has the type of attitude that is optimistic in a very encouraging way. Carlos sees the potential in everyone around him and I hope to work with him again soon.”
Greg Sharer
Vice President of student affairs SUNY Courtland
★★★★★
“Mr. Malave makes us all want to try harder. Brining Mr. Malave into your event or workshop as a keynote is to assure your participants and guests leaving with renewed spirit and conviction. Mr. Malave speaks truth to power and calls us all to dig deep and do better. Having known Mr. Malave as a rough and tumble kid from NYC, I can attest to his evolution as a professional, coach, teacher, and engaged world citizen. Mr. Malave is brilliant, poignant, and absolutely the funniest person I know. Choose Malave today. You will move the lives you serve that much closer to greatness.”
Arel Moodie
True Speaking Success
★★★★★
“Carlos was an asset to the student body at SUNY Cortland. He exemplifies the spirit we wish to instill in our students and alumni – he has gone into the world and is positively changing the lives of others. I recommend Carlos Malave to you without reservation.”
Erik J. Bitterbaum
President at SUNY Courtland
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